HEALTH CARE IN AMERICA (Part 5)
December 1st, 2006DOCTORS MAKE LOUSY PATIENTS
(BoZone Health Pearl # 99)
âTalk to doctors about their experiences and youâll be surprised by how little power they have to bend the system to their willâ
(TIME: May 1, 2006)
ââDoctors are terrible patients, because they know too muchâ, says Dr. Pamela Gallin, director of pediatric ophthalmology at New York Presbyterian-Columbia Medical Center and author of How to Survive Your Doctorâs Care. âThey canât be both doctor and patient at the same time.â They donât like appearing weak; they are schooled in a culture of stoicism and sacrifice that cautions against complaint. In studies of the behavior of doctors, most admit to writing their own prescriptions, self-diagnosing, and avoiding check-ups. When they do have to enter a hospital as a patient, they struggle with their role, scanning their bedside monitors and watching their colleagues so closely that everyone can get a little spooked.
âI donât like the role reversal,â says Michael McKee, vice chairman of psychology and psychiatry at the Cleveland clinic. âI suppose it is the way you feel when youâre 80 or 90 and your kids are taking care of you. It doesnât feel right.ââ
The above quotes were taken from an article in TIME Magazine, written by Amanda Bower and Nancy Gibbs. It brings up an interesting discussion, one, which is closely related to the saying âWalk the walk, and Talk the talkâ. The best teachers are those people who have truly integrated lifeâs experiences in their own heart, and who are willing to share their efforts, their tribulations and their lessons with those who are ready to embark on a similar path.
I often tell people close to me that life is what it is; we have arrived where we are today, because of our own recent as well as long-forgotten decisions. It is so easy to blame others for certain mishaps and misery; however, we have allowed these people at some point to influence us enough, that we become willing followers in stead of independent participants.
Keep in mind that someone elseâs path, although similar, is not the same as the one paved for us. Knowing that, it should give us a wonderful feeling of uniqueness and individuality. We deserve to be respected for our progress, at whatever tempo that may be; and we should realize that as much as we donât like it when somebody else is trying to butt into our life, we should respect their space, their path, their life, and their choices just as well.
Todayâs article is about sharing the lessons of life, and respecting individual progress based on where it is today, without judging the past, or its possible development in the future.
Bowerâs and Gibbsâ article is called âQuestion: What Scares Doctors? Answer: Being the Patient!â It highlights the true-life experiences of doctors in hospitals, who for a myriad of circumstances, end up in a patientâs bed, thereby getting a complete different view of how the health care system actually works in reality.
Being a patient and being thrown in this environment is confusing, scary and overwhelming. Top that off with the fact that patients are not allowed to have an opinion, and it feels you have just been transported to a foreign country, where people speak a language, which is only barely understandable.
Now keep in mind that doctors speak this language daily, but once the roles are switched, they are really not allowed to be in charge anymore.
This TIME article is a huge exposĂ© about how doctors suddenly are forced to walk the path their patients usually tread. It is not their own, and as much as theyâd like to change it, they cannot. The future will tell if a TIME article such as this, will inspire doctors to change and improve their conversations and communications with their patientsâŠ
âMore than 1 in 3 doctors in a 2002 survey by the Harvard School of Public Health reported errors in their own or a family membersâ medical care. Dr. Robert Wachter, chief of the medical service at the University of California, San Francisco Medical Center, who co-wrote last yearâs best seller Internal Bleeding: The Truth behind Americaâs Terrifying Epidemic of Medical Mistakes, says he has seen it all: patients who had the wrong leg amputated, were given the wrong (and deadly) medicines, had surgical instruments left behind in the abdomen.
Not all the errors are due to ignorance or incompetence; even the best doctors make mistakes.â
This is not a very comforting thought, especially because of several reasons: 1) you might have a remaining lifetime of suffering and complications; 2) your bill for that procedure, as well as possible follow-ups, can financially bankrupt you; 3) it is almost impossible to legally fight the responsible doctor(s) or institutions successfully; and 4) most doctors will get off with just a slap on the wrist; not even a suspension or retraining.
Gibbs and Bowers continue with a quote from Martin Palmeri, an internal medicine resident at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center in New Hampshire: âWhat scares me most about the current medical environment is complacency (meaning: contented self-satisfaction, or lack of concern) with the status quo. When I refer one of my family members to someone, I want to make sure that they are the type of physician who leaves no stone unturned, and who will burn the midnight candle if need be to ensure the highest-quality care possible.â
Is this wishful thinking in a society and culture where deaths by western medicine is reaching well over 125,000 annually, while doctors are continued to be hailed as omnipotent; and where we are currently ranked about 27th in the world as far as quality of health care is concerned, while costing five times more than the country below us (Tsjech Republic), and two to three times more than any country ahead of us?
Some doctors actually claim that because patients are not always nice to them, they are not always nice to patients. I believe that there have been too many instances, too many misdiagnoses, too many mistakes, too many delays in treatment, too many side effects, too many deaths, too many lawsuits, too many lives that were scarred forever, to just give doctors, hospitals, big pharmaceutical, and health insurance companies a collective pat-on-the-back for a job well done.
As I mentioned earlier, life is what it is. However, as people we always strive to learn from mistakes and get better. If it takes doctors to become patients and learn first-hand about the shortcomings in todayâs health care, than this should encourage any patient in this country to help these doctors by speaking-up and letting him/her know that their observations were correct.
It is time to talk the walk that is needed for a serious overhaul. This is one path we should NOT walk alone; we need to walk the talk together, because we will all benefit from it. Being #1 in health care is not the most important, unless it is achieved without any one being left behind.
Jacobus is not a Doctor and does not intent to diagnose, treat or cure any disorder. The information is based on self-study, interviewing experts on his weekly 3-hour Sunday morning Radio Program âGesundheit! With Jacobusâ (www.GWJhome.com), which runs from 7-10, on AM1450-KMMS, and on feedback received from retail customers. If in doubt please visit a professional of your own choice and/or educate yourself with available published materials.
